How I Do It: ‘I’m a transmasculine dom – I met my partner at a BDSM picnic’

This week, we hear from Jamie, a transmasculine hobby dom who uses he/him and they/them pronouns.

Jamie’s in a relationship with someone who also shares their interest in BDSM.

‘My partner and I actually met at a BDSM picnic,’ they tell Metro.co.uk. ‘The first kink we explored together involved needles.

‘My partner also has play dates with other people. We very much enjoy having the freedom to share these intense moments with lots of different people.’

Jamie, who meets people via Kaufmich.com, a free social network for industry professionals, has regular play dates with others.

Even though they both dabble outside their relationship, Jamie says the time they and their partner spend together is ‘always our top priority.’

Without any further ado, here’s how Jamie got on this week…

Warning: The following is, as you might imagine, not safe for work.

Today I had a great session. The person I played with wanted to explore anal stretching.

We’d planned everything beforehand on the phone, so I knew exactly what to expect and what he was hoping to receive from me.

During our session, he laid on his back with his legs wide open. Before long, he was moving with pleasure and begging for more.

Source of data and images: metro