6 Spicy Bombshells Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives’ Jessi Draper Just Unloaded On Call Her Daddy Podcast With Alex Cooper

The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives ‘ Jessi Draper has officially gone on the record about her divorce, and of course, the Call Her Daddy couch was always going to be the place she did it.

In a tell‑all chat with Alex Cooper, the reality star laid out her side of the split from Jordan Ngatikaura, plus a stack of claims about escorts, blackmail and her thoughts on fellow castmate, Taylor Frankie Paul.

1. Jessi Draper says she asked for a divorce first

Jessi told Alex she was the one who ended the marriage, but says she still found out Jordan had actually filed for divorce when TMZ allegedly contacted her. “I found out that he filed through TMZ,” she said, adding, “I did end it with him, so I knew it was coming, but he blindsided me because he wanted the headline first.”

She said what really gutted her was that they’d agreed to tell their kids together, “including his daughter, who’s 13 years old”, before anything went public. In his own statement, Jordan has said the decision “comes with a heavy heart” and that his priority is making sure the children feel “loved, supported, and protected” during the split.

2. Spying claims and daily criticism

On the pod, Jessi described their relationship as “like 90 per cent criticism and 10 per cent compliments”, saying Jordan picked at “anything [she] did, like how [she] ran my business, how [she] parented, my time management, how [she] cleaned the house… even like how [she] would like dress”.

She also claimed he told her he wanted her doing Pilates “every single day” and that he “believes in traditional gender roles” and wanted her to be more “feminine”.

Jessi alleged that while they were separated, he “hacked” her Instagram and set up a fake phone number so he could send himself her voice memos with reality star Harry Jowsey. Harry has since made a TikTok reacting to this revelation:

“He has tracked me, he has listened in on my cameras in my house,” Jessi claimed, calling him “calculated”. The reality star said she has now changed her phone number, which Jordan does not have access to.

3. Escorts, “sex parties” and blackmail

One of the wildest parts of the episode was Jessi’s claim that an escort service contacted her with screenshots they said were from Jordan. “I had an escort service reach out to me and they sent me screenshots of his phone number and messages and he was trying to meet up with them,” she said, alleging, “He got a hotel room and I have all of that.”

According to Jessi, he denied it and told her, “We’re in Hollywood now. People are going to try to do this to tear us apart. It’s probably AI”, but she insists “it wasn’t”.

She also addressed rumours he was “paying for parties” during their marriage, “I have to believe they are orgies, like sex parties. I don’t know what other kind of parties you would pay for. Like, you just go to a party, you know?” she said.

Jessi tied that back to her own emotional affair with Vanderpump Villa’s Marciano Brunette, claiming that before it all aired, Jordan “was blackmailing me with the Marciano texts”, keeping them in a TikTok draft and threatening, “I’m gonna post them, I’m gonna ruin your life” whenever he was angry.

She recalled one argument where she claims Jordan threatened to post the Marciano messages, pulled out his phone, started filming and taunted, “What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do? Are you gonna be like, Taylor, should I call the cops?”

She told Alex she found herself chasing him around the house trying to grab the phone before realising, “This is not healthy”, and says she left him the next day.

4. One last night together

Even after asking for a divorce Jessi did admit there was one last night spent together. Jessi said she’d been having wine with friends while staying in a hotel, felt like she “didn’t have a home” and ended up Ubering back at 4am, getting into bed and having sex with Jordan. “After that moment, I was like never again,” she said, explaining that they now only communicate about the kids through a third party.

5. Jessi Draper’s prenup drama

Financially, Jessi told listeners the prenup drama from season four has settled in her favour.

In the show, Jessi revealed that she discovered that when she signed her prenuptial agreement with Jordan, they did not have witnesses.

The reality star said at the time that Jordan was “a hard person to be married to” and would be a “harder person to divorce”.

On CHD, Jessi said her lawyers told her the agreement is “actually valid” even without a witness, explaining, “You don’t need a witness signature as long as both of you have signed it, which we have. So thank God… I don’t have to give him anything for my businesses, but I will have to pay alimony and child support most likely.”

6. A Taylor Frankie Paul update

She also got emotional talking about her friend and co‑star Taylor Frankie Paul, saying the Mormon Wives cast knew a video existed of an alleged 2023 domestic violence incident with ex‑boyfriend Dakota Mortensen but hadn’t seen it until it surfaced recently. Jessi also speculated that Dakota was the one to sell the video to TMZ.

Draper City Police in Utah have confirmed there is an open “domestic assault investigation” involving Paul and Mortensen, with “allegations… made in both directions” and a separate domestic assault investigation was reported today.

Through tears, Jessi said, “I believe people can come back from things like this,” adding, “I just want the kids to be safe and happy and healthy. That’s all I really want for them right now.”

It’s worth noting, one thing she did not mention on the podcast was the restraing order filed against her by Jordan a day after he filed for divorce, but that could have been a recording schedule thing. All we know now is that this divorce with Jordan is probably going to get a lot more messier.

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