Jennifer Lopez just took a swipe at her fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck and, well, every other man she’s ever been engaged to or married to in the past.
When Howard Stern asked the 56-year-old pop diva if she’s ever ‘truly been loved’ she said no: ‘What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable…They don’t have it in them!’
‘And they gave me what they had, right?’ Jennifer explained on the SiriusXM show.
‘They gave me all of it, every time – all the rings, all the things I could ever want, right? Tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage – all of it.’
And while Lopez felt she was giving all of her love to those past partners, she admitted she didn’t fully love herself and the men also needed to learn how to ‘appreciate the little person inside of them.’
The two-time Grammy nominee went on to say her February 21st divorce from the 53-year-old Oscar winner after two years of marriage ‘was the best thing that ever happened to me.’
Jennifer Lopez just took a swipe at her fourth ex-husband Ben Affleck (L, pictured in 2024) and, well, every other man she’s ever been engaged to or married to in the past
When Howard Stern asked the 56-year-old pop diva if she’s ever ‘truly been loved’ she said no: ‘What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable…They don’t have it in them!’
‘It really made me journey into — I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction. I had everything,’ Jennifer confessed.
‘I was like, ‘I’m gonna f***in’ figure this s*** out if it kills me.”‘
Before their split, Lopez managed to convince Ben to use his production company Artists Equity to fund her $34M-budget movie, Kiss of the Spider Woman, because ‘it was the role I was born to play.’
Disastrously, Bill Condon’s big-screen version of the 1992 West End musical has only earned $902K since opening last Friday despite having a ‘certified fresh’ 77% critic approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes.
The American Music Awards host pulled triple duty portraying Ingrid Luna, Aurora, and The Spider Woman in the Lionsgate flick starring Tonatiuh and Diego Luna as two Argentinian prisoners.
The couple formerly known as ‘Bennifer’ originally met filming Martin Brest’s box office bomb Gigli in 2001, but split three days before their 2004 wedding.
Lopez and Affleck began surreptitiously texting each other again in February 2021 – two months before she ended her engagement to her allegedly philandering fiancé Alex Rodriguez.
Last month, the amicable exes relisted their 12-bedroom marital megamansion in Beverly Hills known as ‘The Crown Jewel of Wallingford’ for $52M on the real estate market after paying $60.85M for the property back in 2023.
Jennifer welcomed her 17-year-old fraternal twins Emme and Max during her seven-year marriage to third ex-husband Marc Anthony, which ended in 2011.
Jennifer explained on the SiriusXM show: ‘And they gave me what they had, right? They gave me all of it, every time – all the rings, all the things I could ever want, right? Tried to give me the houses, the rings, the marriage – all of it’
And while Lopez felt she was giving all of her love to those past partners, she admitted she didn’t fully love herself and the men also needed to learn how to ‘appreciate the little person inside of them’
The two-time Grammy nominee went on to say her February 21st divorce from the 53-year-old Oscar winner (R, pictured in 2024) after two years of marriage ‘was the best thing that ever happened to me’
Jennifer confessed: ‘It really made me journey into — I mean, I had a religious coach, I had a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, I had a coach to understand addiction’
Before their split, Lopez managed to convince Ben to use his production company Artists Equity to fund her $34M-budget movie, Kiss of the Spider Woman, because ‘it was the role I was born to play’
Disastrously, Bill Condon’s big-screen version of the 1992 West End musical has only earned $902K since opening last Friday despite having a ‘certified fresh’ 77% critic approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes
The couple formerly known as ‘Bennifer’ originally met filming Martin Brest’s box office bomb Gigli in 2001, but split three days before their 2004 wedding
Lopez and Affleck began surreptitiously texting each other again in February 2021 – two months before she ended her engagement to her allegedly philandering fiancé Alex Rodriguez (R, pictured in 2021)
Jennifer welcomed her 17-year-old fraternal twins Emme and Max during her seven-year marriage to third ex-husband Marc Anthony (R), which ended in 2011
Lopez was previously married to Cuban waiter Ojani Noa (L) for 11 months until 1998 and she wed her former backup dancer Cris Judd (R) for 16 months ending in 2003
The Unstoppable producer-star also enjoyed substantial relationships with her high school sweetheart David Cruz and disgraced rap mogul Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs (L)
Jennifer is next scheduled to appear on Bravo’s boozy talk show Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen this Wednesday night
Lopez was previously married to Cuban waiter Ojani Noa for 11 months until 1998 and she wed her former backup dancer Cris Judd for 16 months ending in 2003.
The Unstoppable producer-star also enjoyed substantial relationships with her high school sweetheart David Cruz and disgraced rap mogul Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs.
Jennifer is next scheduled to appear on Bravo’s boozy talk show Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen this Wednesday night.
On November 1, Lopez will be honored with the Virtuoso Award at SCAD Savannah Film Festival in Georgia for her performance in Kiss of the Spider Woman.
The Emmy-nominated producer’s other upcoming acting roles include Ol Parker’s rom-com Office Romance for Netflix, Robert Zemeckis’ thriller The Last Mrs. Parrish for Netflix, and she’ll produce Bob the Builder for Amazon MGM Studios.
Jennifer is scheduled to kick off her 12-date Up All Night Live in Las Vegas residency at Caesars Palace’s The Colosseum on December 30.
Lopez – who gets 27.4M monthly listeners on Spotify – has sold more than 80M records, her music has been streamed 15B times and her music videos have accrued more than 18B views.
The Kamala Harris campaigner – whose big break was starring in Gregory Nava’s 1997 Selena biopic – originally got her start in 1991 as a Fly Girl for Fox’s comedy sketch show In Living Color before serving back-up dancer duties for Janet Jackson in 1993.
