‘Cornell 7’ frat boy told friends he was going to Thailand to ‘find himself’ after gang rape allegations… as his father is revealed to be a professor of Sharia Law and his privileged life unravels

‘Cornell 7’ frat bro Matthew Ingalls told friends he was taking a gap year in Thailand to ‘find himself’ after being expelled by the Ivy League school over gang-rape allegations, a source has told the Daily Mail.

Ingalls, accused in a civil lawsuit by a woman known as Jane Doe of luring her to his Chi Phi fraternity house and instigating a ketamine-fueled threesome before the alleged 2024 attack, told friends in Dubai of his plans after leaving Cornell University in the wake of a Title IX investigation.

His family reside in the affluent Jumeirah district of the UAE city but the Daily Mail has learned that they’ve temporarily moved elsewhere.

Ingalls’s father is a prominent academic who has taught courses on Sharia law and Islam at elite Middle Eastern universities, the Daily Mail can exclusively reveal.

Yale-educated Matthew B Ingalls, 48, has taught classes on Shariah Law, Islam in America and Islamic Fundamentalism at Yale, the University of Puget Sound in Washington and the American University in Cairo, Egypt, according to a glittering academic resume spanning 11 pages.

He even gave a lecture to female prison inmates at the Washington Corrections Center for Women in 2014. 

His current position is listed as associate professor and chair of the Department of International and Middle Eastern Studies at the prestigious American University in Dubai – although his photo and contact details vanished from the college’s website this week.

That came days after the Daily Mail revealed that his son, born Umar Matthew Ingalls, was one of seven Cornell students accused of drugging and raping a sophomore at a wild frat party in October 2024. He has denied the allegations.

Ingalls looked to be following in the footsteps of his Ivy League-educated father when he secured his place at Cornell the previous year.

But he and a second student, Jonathan Newell, 21, were both expelled following the Title IX investigation that included more than 50 interviews.  

The allegations exploded into the public sphere last month when the woman revisited her claims in a harrowing civil lawsuit, filing anonymously as Jane Doe.

She claimed Ingalls invited her to the party where she was plied with ketamine, marijuana and liquor before being sexually assaulted by up to seven Chi Phi members.

The woman, aged 20 at the time, claims Newell urged his friends to join the assault by posting a message to the fraternity’s Snapchat group advertising ‘free p***y.’

A former neighbor told the Daily Mail this week he believed Ingalls had returned to the Middle East to join his father, who did not respond to multiple calls and emails. The Daily Mail has also contacted Ingalls repeatedly for comment.

His mother, Yasmine Khattab, works as an Arabic and English language tutor and a wellness coach. 

Ingalls spent his early childhood living in Connecticut and Washington, according to public property records, before moving with his family to the United Arab Emirates around 2016.

Yearbook photographs unearthed by the Daily Mail show Ingalls attended an elite private school in Emirates Hills, the wealthy Dubai enclave often dubbed the ‘Beverly Hills of Dubai.’

The school, which caters to some of Dubai’s wealthiest families, regularly sends graduates to leading universities around the world, including the Ivy League.

By 2023, Ingalls had secured multiple college offers, including from Cornell, Tufts and the University of Alabama.

He opted to study math and economics at Cornell, in Ithaca, New York, and joined Chi Phi, one of America’s oldest fraternities, and played on the rugby team.

Ingalls’ promising future would soon start to unravel, however.

In her 101-page lawsuit, Doe alleges Ingalls, whom she considered a friend, lured her to the frat house when she was already heavily intoxicated after a night of drinking on October 19, 2024.

Ingalls allegedly propositioned Doe, then 20, for a threesome with Newell when she said she was too drunk to consent.

She claims they pressured her to snort ketamine and plied her with marijuana and high-proof rum.

Ingalls then allegedly ‘forced’ oral sex on Doe while Newell raped her and repeatedly slapped her buttocks hard enough to leave bruising, the lawsuit claims.

Ingalls allegedly left the room before a third frat member, Gillio Lopes, entered and began kissing Doe. He and Newell then allegedly sexually assaulted her.

At around 1.42am, Newell allegedly sent a message to the fraternity’s Snapchat group saying there was ‘free p***y’ upstairs.

Ingalls returned with several other fraternity members, including Winston Lee, Diego Sarabia, Scott Norris and Scott Kretzschmar.

The lawsuit claims all seven men snorted ketamine off Doe’s naked body before five eventually left.

Ingalls and Lee allegedly coerced Doe into taking more ketamine, leaving her ‘completely incapacitated,’ before they allegedly raped her.

The alleged attack ended at 5.45am when Doe lost consciousness, the filing states.

In a sworn statement, Doe said the ordeal left her so traumatized she was forced to quit Cornell.

She reported the allegations to Cornell University Police three weeks later on November 8, telling investigators: ‘I can say with 100 percent confidence I was raped,’ according to a reported transcript.

A Cornell Title IX investigation resulted in disciplinary sanctions including expulsions and suspensions.

Ingalls and Newell were expelled after Cornell found them responsible for sexually assaulting Doe, according to discipline summaries reviewed by the New York Times.

Chi Phi was permanently banned from campus.

During Cornell’s Title IX investigation, Ingalls claimed that he was the one assaulted by Jane Doe.

‘After all, you received information that I was sodomized by her while I was incapacitated back in November, and you never once thought to alert me of my rights under these procedures as a survivor of this assault?’ Ingalls wrote in an email reviewed by ABC News.

The report also included apparently amicable messages Doe sent Newell and Ingalls days after the alleged attack.

Newell apologized ‘for how things went down,’ while Doe allegedly told him that ‘none of the sexual stuff was illegal’ and that she ‘really liked’ being with him.

In a separate exchange with Ingalls, Doe allegedly said her ‘reputation is destroyed’ but that people needed to ‘grow up’ because ‘sexuality and sex… is changing.’

She ended the message: ‘I luv you King.’

Tompkins County District Attorney Matthew Van Houten’s office declined to bring criminal charges after investigating the case in 2024.

The account Doe gave investigators at the time is said to have differed substantially from the allegations in her civil suit filed nearly two years later.

The original statement did not allege she was drugged against her will, incapacitated or forced into sex acts, Van Houten has said.

Governor Kathy Hochul appointed New York Attorney General Letitia James last week as a special prosecutor to conduct a fresh criminal investigation.

All seven defendants have denied any wrongdoing. None have faced criminal charges.