Ken Urker’s sister reveals he was ‘TERRIFIED’ and ‘humiliated’ by ex Gypsy Rose Blanchard in interview after his death… as cops reveal items found near his body

Ken Urker’s sister has furiously denounced his ex-fiancée Gypsy-Rose Blanchard after he was found dead at his Louisiana home on his 34th birthday.

Urker’s relationship with Blanchard began back in 2017, while she was serving a seven-year prison sentence for her part in the murder of her abusive mother, Claudine ‘Dee Dee’ Blanchard.

In the wake of Urker’s death on Thursday, Blanchard publicly asserted that her ex may have overdosed, claiming he was ‘relentlessly cyberbullied’ before his tragic end.

However, in an exclusive interview with the Daily Mail on Friday, Urker’s sister Autumn has hit back at Blanchard, accusing her of prioritizing her public image and the media over a grief-stricken family. 

‘We are disgusted with her statements! She hasn’t even called my mother or any of us yet,’ Autumn declared. 

Urker first began corresponding with Blanchard back in 2017, sending a letter to her prison after watching an HBO documentary detailing her crime. 

Urker proposed in 2018, while Blanchard was still behind bars, but they split several months later. Blanchard was released in December 2023 after being granted early parole, and she reunited with Urker in 2024. 

The couple welcomed daughter Aurora Raina in December of that year. They officially split up again earlier this year. 

The couple’s relationship was subject to much scrutiny on social media, which Autumn says took a toll on her brother.  

She alleged Blanchard was ‘to blame for his death because all of this started because of her.’

‘She had to be in the limelight. She had to be that girl. She didn’t care what it cost other people around her,’ Autumn witheringly declared. ‘She loved all the attention at the expense of everybody around her.’

‘As much hate that she received, she would receive about two times more of support and happy comments telling her to keep doing her, to ignore the haters,’ Autumn alleged. ‘Except ignoring the haters got everybody around her to receive death threats, and to be uncomfortable.’

Autumn sensationally claimed that Urker told her in their final phone call that he was ‘terrified’ that Blanchard would not keep their daughter Aurora, now aged 21 months, ‘safe.’ He also allegedly said that Blanchard had ‘humiliated him.’

In Autumn’s version of events, Urker allegedly harbored hopes of taking his daughter ‘back home’ to his mother, feeling he had ‘failed Aurora because of Gypsy.’ 

Autumn claimed of Blanchard: ‘It was her way or she was screaming at him because he was trying to control her like her mother. Gypsy is not this sweet person.’

By contrast, Autumn characterized her brother as a ‘great man’ who ‘didn’t care if you were broken, he would still love you. He would still fight for you. He tried so hard for Gypsy because he was that person.’

She insisted: ‘My brother was a good father. A good brother. A good son and a good friend. And we were all lucky and blessed to have known him.’ 

The Daily Mail has contacted representatives for Blanchard but has yet to hear back.  

Her remarks come after police revealed earlier on Friday that Urker was found dead with syringes, a spoon, a handgun and a ‘brown powdery substance’ nearby.

According to an incident report obtained by The Daily Mail, police discovered him on Thursday ‘cold to the touch,’ lying on his back in bed with ‘what appeared to be’ a blood-splotched paper towel on his left arm.

The handgun was sitting in its holster on Urker’s bedside table beside one syringe and two shot glasses, the document clarified.

Blanchard’s sister-in-law Anita went to church this past Wednesday with Urker. She later informed police that he ‘made comments of being depressed and upset.’

Anita and her husband arrived at Urker’s residence the following day, and called police for a welfare check when Urker failed to open the door. 

Police responded to Anita’s call at Urker’s residence, which is located in the town of Raceland on Bayou Lafourche, about an hour’s drive from New Orleans. They discovered his body on a bed inside. 

Urker’s arms and face were blue when he was found in bed, where he had evidently been ‘for extended period of time,’ according to the incident report. 

Nothing in the bedroom ‘appeared to be disturbed or moved’ other than the items on the nightstand – the holstered gun, the shot glasses and another syringe.

Anita noted that Urker had gone live on TikTok at around 11pm Wednesday but ‘just had the video going while he was driving without him saying anything.’ 

Thursday evening, as news circulated of his death, Blanchard went public with her suspicion that he had succumbed to an overdose.

‘I don’t know if it was intentional or not. He was not in a good state of mind lately,’ she told People. ‘I’m in disbelief. I can’t think. I’ve screamed until my throat burns.’

In a statement provided Thursday to TMZ, Blanchard said she texted her ex on the day of his death to wish him a happy birthday but never received a reply. 

‘Ken was an amazing father and a man who was deeply loved,’ she began, adding that Urker would ‘forever be my soulmate and my red string, a connection that time, distance, and even death can never erase.’ 

Blanchard said that he went through an ‘unimaginable level of public scrutiny’ while being with her and that the ‘cruelty directed toward him was something no human being should have to endure.’

She noted that the online harassment had a ‘profound impact’ on Urker.

Regarding their daughter, Blanchard vowed to ‘make sure she grows up knowing how deeply her father loved her.’

Blanchard said that she would also ensure her daughter knew ‘who [Urker] was beyond what strangers on the internet chose to say about him.’ 

Blanchard became a household name back in 2015 after she was arrested over her involvement in her mother Dee Dee’s death. 

Blanchard has been a victim of Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy, with Dee Dee forcing her to pose as an invalid by remaining in a wheelchair at all times in public.

Dee Dee shaved Blanchard’s head and kept her drugged to convince the world that her daughter had muscular dystrophy and was battling leukemia.

But the warped relationship  between mother and daughter came to an end when Blanchard’s boyfriend, Nicholas Godejohn, crept into their home in Springfield, Missouri, and stabbed Dee Dee to death on June 10, 2015. 

Blanchard pleaded guilty to second-degree murder and spent nearly 10 years in prison before being released in December 2023 after being granted an early parole. 

While in prison, she bonded with Urker after he sent her a letter, and they started corresponding. 

Things soon turned romantic, and he went on to propose in 2018.

But after the Hulu miniseries The Act, which starred Joey King as Gypsy and Patricia Arquette as her mother, premiered a few months later and put an intense spotlight on Gypsy’s story, she admitted in her memoir that Ken couldn’t handle the sudden wave of attention. 

Blanchard subsequently met and married another man, Ryan Anderson. They broke up after a short union and she reunited with Urker.  

Following their reunion, Urker looked back on how they reconnected while speaking to People.

‘The very first weekend of April [2024] is when I came to visit her for the first time after she had gotten out. We spent that weekend together and had an incredible time,’ he said.

Their renewed connection was strong enough that they made plans to meet again a month later to attend a jazz festival together.

‘Then shortly after that, we realized we were going to have a baby,’ Urker added.